Recognition of own Competency: It is a must that the young have to be clear about their own strengths and weaknesses to set their eyes on CAN DO and CAN’T DO. If you fail to understand this fact, maybe nothing goes wrong, but surely nothing good will come. In simple words, “I can drive a car well (CAN DO), but equally knowing well that not good to drive on the wrong side or break any traffic rules or not to drive / park at prohibited areas (CAN’T DO). When you understand these facts and drive, the risk of an accident becomes minimised for sure.
Mental and Physical Fitness: When you become very upset or happy, your mental stability jumps due to pain or excitement. This situation of your mind triggers your Physical Fitness.In this situation, it is difficult to make any decision and act rationally. So, when you pass through such situation gives some time to your brain to reset and awaken rightly to deal rationally.
Attitude: Learning, Improving and Leaving: In your life,“Time is the best coach, Experience is the best storybook, and your acts are the best document you have to decide what is right / wrong for you”. With time and experience, you can learn and improve things to move in the right direction and develop an idea about what to leave and when to leave.
Vision and Mission: Life has a tight knot of possibilities, probabilities, opportunities, velocities, so without clear Vision and Mission it would turn into anxiety, illusions, and dependency. In simple words, I have to go to Ahmedabad from Bhavnagar by a road. My vision is to start from the road and have available transport facilities within my budget and type of urgency. My Mission is to reach Ahmedabad on time. If my budget approves will go by taxi, or if not will go be the Bus. If my budget does not approve going by taxi, though I go with it, at the end of the day there would be a puncture in my pocket. At the same time, my mission is to reach Ahmedabad in time, which is important. If you fail to respect time, time will not wait for you.
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Leadership / Independent:You have to be a self-driven for decisions of life. You may get a good coach or guide, but nobody will come to act on your behalf. You have to choose the right path, right act, timeline, and accept what may come out of your acts. Do not raise complaints about outcomes; take it as an opportunity to improve or leave it.
Change -Adapt and Act.Nothing is permanent in this world, and continuous change has to come. My Grandfather was used to write postcards, my father used email, and I am on Instagram, etc. If you can’t change with the needs of the time, you will be framed as “Retired”. The method of technology, communication, social or cultural transformation, environment and other surrounding conditions will always ask you to change- adapt to sustain with happiness.
Time Management:In a day, we have 24 hours and, in a year, we have 365 days. This is a stiffphenomenon you can’t change byprayer, wish, and efforts. Doing things “in time means not before or after the time. Suppose you are in the business of winter wears needs to stock in monsoon, and doing marketing in winter gives you a profit,but it shall not amount to stocking in winter and marketing in summer, which may restrict or pay back. You should precisely plan your education, job or business, socio-economic life plans “In time” and not too early or too late.
Stress Management:no person in the world is free from stress except a lunatic personprobably. When any things come to you by force or not according to your perception or expectation brain starts overreacting to feel you under Stress. In this situation, you start doubting good things and feel illusions. When you feel such a situation, give rest to your brain, spend time with family and friends, read a book, go for an outing or do something as per your hobby and choice. If your focus is on Stress, you are inviting big troubles in life. So, you need to focus on stress management through versatile activities and distance yourself from what happened.
Self-Motivation – Success and Failure:Ask yourself when you get Success and fail why this is happening. Recognise how you can do better next time. You should be proud of your success but not have an ego about it. You should accept your failures but should not feel guilty when you did well ethically.
Innovation: Innovation is nothing but a process to act differently to save time, effort, and get better output. This is an ongoing process to make life easier. You should not hold yourself at a particular point when it is your proven success story. Because nothing is permanent, new, better things have to come forth, so if you are holding, you will be frozen; that would be the closed door of future opportunities.
Social wellbeing: Your family and friends are your natural remedies to stay fit, fine, and happy. So it is a must to remain associated with them. It is very easy to disassociate and very hard to re-associate with them. So be careful to maintain an uninterrupted relationship no matter how much is your success today or tomorrow or failures.
Community Wellbeing: without any expectation or existence of any direct/indirect relationships, just act for the Community where you are living. This will give you inner happiness. This is not compulsion for any individual, but at the same time its moral, ethical and noble cause makes you feel good.
